These thoughts keep you going in circles
Is he interested or just being nice?
12:34Maybe I shouldn't text her first...
12:34What if he doesn't feel the same?
12:34I can't let my friends know I like her...
12:34And many more. You can't make the right decisions without clarity.
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Lots of good signs, honesty, and care. You two are getting there—maybe just need a bit more time or a real talk before making things official.
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Break the ice with conversation starters tailored to Fiona's communication style.
Hey Fiona Lee! Been exploring any cool spots lately? 🗺️
Hey Fiona Lee! Been exploring any cool spots lately? 🗺️
- Opens with a friendly question about her interests, shows curiosity, and uses emojis to match her casual communication style.
Hey Fiona! How's your week been? 🤪 Hope you're having a chill one! 😎
- Injects humor and uses emojis, subtly referring to the marital discretion topic, but in a lighthearted way that respects her casual communication style.
Ask more questions - she might appreciate a more reciprocal exchange.
Ask more questions - she might appreciate a more reciprocal exchange.
Vary message lengths - longer messages might be beneficial.
Balance humor with genuine engagement - show more investment.
Match Fiona Lee's quick replies! Show you're engaged and value her time.
Match Fiona Lee's quick replies! Show you're engaged and value her time.
Ask Fiona Lee open-ended questions; encourage her to share more!
Respond directly to Fiona Lee's questions; show you listen actively.
Don't ignore Fiona Lee's questions; it will look like you aren't interested.
Don't ignore Fiona Lee's questions; it will look like you aren't interested.
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Matched with Wendy on a dating app. Great conversations for 2 months, but hadn't met yet. Sam wondered: "Is Wendy interested or just being friendly?"
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Met Alex at a friend's birthday party. Talked for hours and stayed in touch. Texted daily for 2 months as "friends."
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